Feeling Useful.

Feeling useful in life is a significant aspect of our existence that many people often overlook. It encompasses a deep-seated desire to contribute meaningfully to the lives of others and to society as a whole. We all harbor an innate yearning to feel valued, to believe that our presence and actions carry weight and significance. When this sense of usefulness is absent, we may find ourselves grappling with feelings of emptiness and dissatisfaction, perpetually seeking something more fulfilling for ourselves. Personally, I have been laid up now for over a year, and during this time, I have come to realize that I feel no more useful now than I did a year ago. This prolonged period of inactivity has forced me to confront my own self-worth and the role that utility plays in my life. Reflecting on my childhood, I remember how much joy I found in helping my dad with various tasks. Whether it was holding a flashlight while he worked on a project or assisting him with chores around the house, I was always eager to be by his side. Those moments were not just about the tasks at hand; they were about the connection we shared and the sense of purpose I felt in being there for him. Looking back, I sometimes wonder if my eagerness to help stemmed from a desire for recognition or validation. Perhaps it was a combination of both—a genuine wish to contribute and an underlying need to be acknowledged for my efforts. As human beings, we thrive on the feeling of being useful. It fuels our motivation and drives us to engage with the world around us. When we lack this sense of purpose, we may find ourselves questioning the very essence of our daily lives. If we have nothing to keep us going on a daily basis, if we feel as though we are merely existing rather than living, then what is the point of it all? This existential inquiry can lead to a deeper understanding of ourselves and our relationships with others. It underscores the importance of finding ways to contribute, whether through small acts of kindness, volunteering, or simply being present for those we care about. In doing so, we not only enhance our own sense of worth but also enrich the lives of those around us, creating a cycle of mutual support and fulfillment that benefits everyone involved.